I had a friend come to our house a few weeks ago and we all hung out and my husband and her played the PlayStation and drank. I'm due in November so no drinking for me, well the night was just a regular night. My friend and I talk almost everyday after she left that day we haven't talked she was ignoring my phone calls and texts I asked her what happened between her and my husband(he has a bit of a track record during our marriage) and she finally sent me this screen shot of what he wrote her and she didn't respond to him. We r both in the military and this will be our 4th child. What would u do? What do u take away from this message. I am pretty sure I am going to leave him but it will be hard and it will tear the kids apart. And I am having another c section in November, so it will be hard with a one year old. I have to find a house and make new school and babysitter arrangements. I'm use to having lots of spending money I will no longer with just myself and the kids. Just so much going through my head but I can't keep forgiving this man for the same things. This isn't the first time. And he has always sent women emails and fb messages and I find them. He physically cheated once that I know of. But claims that message to my friend was innocent and meant nothing yea I know better, he's just caught and will come up with anything