Is this abuse?

Jennifer

This pregnancy has really been eye opening to what an insensitive jerk my husband is. I find myself almost daily wonder what is wrong with him to think that what he's doing is ok. I sleep with an itty bitty blanket and he stole my large comforter and wraps up in it ever night AND hogs the bed so my gigantic hippo butt is on the edge. I barely sleep and he doesn't care how loud he is once he wakes up. I can not sleep and that doesn't matter to him. I clean the entire house while he plays his Xbox and every time I want to get out of the house he literally wraps up in my blanket and goes to sleep. It is almost 3:00 here and I have not eaten because we have nothing in the house to eat because he spends all his money on shit we don't need and then we end up with no money for groceries but I bring up going to get a pack of balogna and what does he do? He rolls over and goes to sleep. 😡 this morning I had a crippling migraine and I TOLD him that noise made me feel like I was going to puke (and puked because of my own talking after) and so while I'm trying to take a nap he sits beside me and plays YouTube videos on full volume on his phone. If he has to do anything that he doesn't want to do (which is basically anything outside of playing Xbox and watching stupid YouTube videos) he pitches a fit the whole time he's doing it and makes me miserable because he is. He can never just grin and bear it. He somehow has money for games and guns, but no gunsafe which was a condition on which I would let him get the first gun, but somehow every time I want to buy something we NEED for the baby we can't afford it. He eats like an 8 year old (pb&j;, pancakes, macaroni, buttered noodles) and if I make him a nice home cooked meal he acts like it's the end of the world. The only way I've found to get him to act right is to post what he's doing on Facebook so he can be embarrassed, but I don't like putting our relationship problems online for everyone to see. I'm just so tired of his BS and if he doesn't start acting right I WILL leave regardless of the fact that we have a child together because if he can't act right now he isn't going to act right for our daughter either.

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