Okay, I just need to vent a little and maybe get some feedback from you ladies...

i had a baby 5 weeks ago. i'm still kinda chubby and super self conscious about how i look. i'm insecure anyway, but this leftover baby belly definitely doesn't help the situation. me and my husband were planning to meet his best friend for lunch since it's his friends birthday. in an attempt to make myself feel better, i do my makeup (which i thought looked awesome) and straightened my hair, which i rarely ever do. i even put on cute panties and sent hubby a booty shot while i was getting ready. did hubby say anything? nope. i changed twice before i found something i felt halfway comfy in (as far as how i looked). i told hubby i was having a bad self esteem day, and i felt awful about how i looked today.

so, we get to the restaurant for lunch, his friends wife is standing up and hands something to his friend, an older guy looks at his friend, then points at his wife and says "you're a lucky man!" (she is super pretty with an awesome figure, i'm not hating on her); to which my husband says "yea he is"

i looked at him with a complete look of shock and hurt.. so i came home, threw my hair in the mom bun and took off all my makeup, put my sweats and a tshirt. i just feel sad now. like all that effort and he said nothing, but makes a comment like that. when i told him it upset me, he said he meant that his friend was lucky because he was so ugly and managed to get a hot wife. but yea, either way it just really bummed me out. am i silly for feeling so hurt by something so petty?

vent over. thanks for reading.