Was I wrong???

He wanted me to defend his honor, all I could do was laugh and smh. Here's to the guy I've been with for 4.5 years, we never spent a holiday together, I've supported his business and stood by him regardless. Anywho, he's pissed off because I won't defend his honor, to be honest, I don't think I really need or have to. On his words before the holidays get here, he doesn't travel during that time, it's bad luck and his mom would be upset if he wasn't with her...mind you he would never meet my family after I asked him to and I'm not able to meet his for my own protection...no he isn't married and he doesn't have any kids, just in case you were wondering. I was also told, I wasn't meeting his family unless we were getting serious and we aren't getting married no time soon😔😒...so what's my purpose, my family asks about him and I give the sme answer he gives me, I don't cover him anymore it's pointless, I feel stupid at times because I don't see a point anymore...a family member of mines questions him all the time because he only lives 4hrs away, yes it's a long distance relationship and he has yet to meet anyone yet. Like this year and last year was a litte rough because we couldn't agree on anything, he has to have it his way or no way all the time, I haven't seen him since July...he calls everyday nonstop, he's not the romantic type to me, he's got this thing where he talks about his previous relationships and sex stories, I don't care about...its a turn off... I've tried to compromise, there's no such thing and I think it's time for me to go. I don't defend when there's nothing there and he tries to play, "I'M the good guy card", saying he's bought flowers for me for gradution and has supported me, ect, ect. Was never given flowers (RED FLAG!!!), I support myself financially after I've spent my last for him and nothing in return. So no I'm not covering nor defending his honor for him anymore.