epilepsy

hey guys I had epilepsy a few years ago and doctor has told me I only have vulnerability to lights I'm 19 and it's hard to go out as I'm not allowed clubbing and o couldn't even go to the concert of my dreams because my mum wouldn't let me go as she was afraid there was too many strobes. what are some places I could actually go to and what are some things I can do to go to parties and not have to worry