Nervous?

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Hey guys... 
so me and my man have been together almost 6 years. And I've felt the need to spice things up a bit and I know he's down for it.  But I'm a little shy and live with some family 😑 sooo we can't do too much but I do wanna try some things. What are some easy ways to start out? Role playing? Toys? I'm so lost... lol 😩😂

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A great way to spice things up is to get your own place. It opens up a whole other world.

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Role playing is always fun! You can play a role that doesnt entail even starting in the home. You can happen to meet somewhere & go from there. I am all for adventure when in the mood. So, I'm down for public acts to an extent! lol

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Don't get too stressed about it! My man and I have a very varied and hot love life but we have our own place and a lot of alone time so have had a chance to try things!
Why not try a small vibrator to start with and tell him to watch while you use it on yourself, if you feel self conscious just don't worry about looking at him all the time just close your eyes and then tell him you want to see him wank himself off cos it makes you so wet (those words always work!) maybe pull him onto the bed and start out talking dirty such as I can't wait to get you inside me and f@ck me etc, go as wild as you feel comfy with. Me and my fiancé say some weird things and when we finished and the moment has gone we're like wtf and start laughing 😂
Light bondage and getting him to spank you (as hard as you feel comfy with) or get a small butt plug and ask him to do you from behind and get him to insert that (with plenty of lube) while he does you doggy then if you want you can suggest he does you up the arse..I'm sorry I couldn't find a nice way of saying that!
Txt him what his fantasy is one day and then act it out. My man did this once and I felt silly saying it out loud, I like to be dominated, choked and slapped. The more pain the better BUT it's different for everyone. Good luck 🤞🏽

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Experience ur self in front of him and hv him do the same. then just go from there take things slow and let him know what u want him to do to u etc

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Our beginning was like handcuffs

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