husband is back and fourth about having a second child

Kr

he will try to get me pregnant one month....then slip the next saying he can't handle the stress....because we're making a move from One state to another. I am at a slow point in work which makes it perfect for me since I tend to get HG. He is wanting to move away from my family and I love him so I'll go even though the move is really about him and his new career as a fisherman while I'm a realtor and once we move close to the beach I will have to start completely over in real estate. I will be to stressed then....and working around the clock to rebuild a career from the ground up. He doesn't see that I need to do this now. I don't want to pressure him because that's not ok to do. He has no clue what I go through when I'm pregnant and I really need to do it when I'm at a slow point in my career. It feels like I'm being emotionally tortured back and fourth once I got a negative ept back he said wheeewww.....glad your not pregnant because that's too much stress for me right now ....Any thoughts on his back and fourth?