OML... someone slap me, I feel like such an IDIOT π π π
OK!! Story time.... so my boyfriend and I have been talking for the last month and finally made things official just a few nights ago. He is an absolutely WONDERFUL person and I truely care for him. I adore the way he treats my 2 month old son and myself. I've honestly never been so happy. So of course we finally had sex for the first time. And I didn't think anything of it at the time, but we didnt use a condom...With being a new mom and not really hounding to find someone to be with I chose not to resume birth control (HAHA dumbassπ)....Anyways, we finished having sex, he left to go get pizza and i took the time to clean up. I didnt notice anything unusual and assumed he pulled out because there was a nice wet puddle on the bed (but again nothing stood out, hell i actually thought he didn't finish at all and so i felt bad). He made a big deal about having open and honest communication the other day and before i went to bed i asked him if he did the god awful unspeakable act. And GUESS WHAT?!?!?! He did. He surely f*cking did. His comment was "I just assumed you were on birth control...you are..RIGHT?!?!" ππ Oh honey noooooo!!!! This sweet sweet man went out and panicked for me and got a morning after pill (thank the Lorrrd, i did not want another child yeyππ). Afterwards we got a bit of a kick out of it and I told him from now on we absolutely MUST use condoms. Lesson learned.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.