Talks to me like this all the time

Just wondering if this is how boyfriends should talk to their girlfriends .

Background story; he's mad at me for going to the movie with my dad instead of him... I made plans first with my dad and he doesn't understand. And I am excited. So basically he won't watch my daughter for me for an hour and put her to bed to spite me going to the movies with my dad.

We live together, he would be home anyway. We have been together 3 years, and have one on the way. This is how he constantly talks to me. Is this a form of abuse? I would never talk to someone this way?.... idk