What to do when you've got a cheater

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I've seen a lot of post about cheaters lately what advise do you ladies have for those in that difficult situation  *Public service announcement: Share only positive advise please refrain from the "oh but what did you do" BS this isn't a place for bashing just supporting. Feel free to post any obnoxiously funny GIFs to help those chuckle a little through the pain ❤️

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Leave the relationship with my dignity and self respect
"Getting even" is immature and makes you just as bad as they are

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Leave. Make yourself better and stronger. Don't stoop to their level by "getting even". I just broke up with one, shitty shitty situation. But let me say this, I will never for a second give him the satisfaction of thinking he ruined me or my life. He did not. Nor will he ever. I've learned to not take shit from people, I've learned to stand up for myself, I've learned what I want, I've learned what signs to look for... indirectly he made me a stronger woman. Karma is real and I promise you it will get him back so much better than you ever could've planned to.

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This is a tough one I've been there before first of all Leave with dignity but leave with a plan especially if children are involved ! If you have a joint bank account get your own account and take out half its your money too you might be hurting but dont be silly now.

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Move tf on with your life... do not waste your time 🙄🙄🙄 I can't stand females sometimes (including myself wish I was a guy some days)

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The first thing I wish I did is block him on Facebook! As he blocked me which means he can keep me there in his blocked list and look me up and see any name changes. I hate the thought of that. Apart from that, I would say leave. Retain your dignity. Have as little contact as you can with them, preferably none. If you have divorces, financials etc to sort out then keep it civil until it's all finalised, so that can all go smoothly without pettiness. Once everything was all sorted I did go off on him and tell him what a lowlife he was. Which helped a little with closure. But any revenge schemes etc I think would have just made me feel worse about myself, he wasn't worth it, he can stay down in the gutter with his trashy actions and I will rise above!

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Leave with maturity. Nothing is worth more than your dignity and class.

What to do when you've got a cheater

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