So my husband got out of the navy a few months ago, since then we've moved back to his home town and in with his parents until we could get back on our feet. I had no problem with him getting out or this plan but it has been several months now and I am so unhappy with my life. We both found jobs but are both unhappy and not making as much as we previously did, and can't seem to find anything else so with this we haven't been able to move out of his parents house. He has talked to a recruiter about getting back in but there seems to be one thing after another and I'm honestly giving up hope it's going to happen. But honestly I pray almost every day he gets back in. I miss my old life and how comfortable we were. Ever since we moved down here I have just been so miserable and I kind of feel guilty about it, he try's so hard for me but all I want is our old life back. Is this selfish??