first post, clueless

Charmayne

So my husband and I decided that if we wait for the perfect circumstances, it will never happen. So I have come off the pill. I have no idea about my cycle or ovulation or anything really. My hubby will be 38 next week, I'll be 33 in November. This is a first for both of us. What should I do, what shouldn't I do. Or do I just log things for a few months to see if there are any patterns. Completely in the dark.