I want to take a girls trip. I was hesitant to ask my husband because I didn't want him to say no. We have a 4 year old and he wants me to take her with us. The girls don't want us to brings the kids. He's saying that I can't go unless I take her. I haven't traveled in a while. I don't know what to do!! I need a relaxing vacation even if it's just 3 days!

Update:

Girls went without me because he refused to stay with her. He told me he doesn't want me to go but to do whatever I want. He keeps trying to control what I do and where I go. I'm getting really sick of it. I don't know what to do anymore I'm unhappy.