So I've been with my husband for five years we have been married for two. I am being starved emotionally and physically by this man. I ask for things that I need and I don't receive it. There is absolutely no romance (never has been though), we kiss like church friends (no passion), we have sex 1-2 times a month (no intimacy), he doesn't compliment me or make me feel beautiful, he's rude at times, and doesn't know how to communicate. We went to counseling and that was a joke to him. He didn't do any of the assignments or take it seriously. I write him letters to try to explain to him how I feel since he blows up and plays the ignore game when he's being confronted about something. I figured if I enclosed paper with the letter for him to respond, but he never does. It's like he doesn't even try at all. we have a lot of debt and we just filed for bankruptcy. We only have one car right now. So I feel like I can't leave right now until Things Are coming together a little more. I do absolutely EVERYTHING for this man. Ive also put up with a lot from him (i.e. talking to and texting other women, meeting a "friend" at a restaurant to give her advice. Then I talk to him about it. He has no idea why Im mad so then I go silent for days.A ny advice from you ladies?