Help please

Hey, I don't know if this is the right place but I kinda need help or advice or just support. I'm 7w4d pregnant with my first baby and really excited but no one else is. My family hates the baby daddy and I thought maybe they would get used to it but it down seem like it. They tried to talk

Me into an abortion before but since I'm not really the type for that and im just so happy about the baby i couldn't do it. But now we're at the point where they've told me that i have to decide between having my family by my side or the father and i just keep crying. My mother has always been the most important person in my life and she would do anything for me but she just refuses to meet him or talk to him and just keeps telling me that if I want him to be involved in the pregnancy and raising the child then she can't be involved or just do sporadic visits (when he's not present). She always cries when we talk about it and tells me that I'm breaking her heart and that my boyfriend is taking her daughter away. I just feel like crap every day and I don't know what to do anymore. Has anyone some kind of advice or similar experiences? I just keep crying myself to sleep every night 😔