Feel like my husband is more about his family needs than our own.

This whole month of september and soon to be October, my husband and i have busy schedules. we are due in october with our first. Well recently his grandmother decided to move in with his sister which is fine. But they feel the need to bother my husband to have him help her move (to help his brother in law move stuff out of house). i have told my husband that we are busy from here on out with plans, and most importantly a baby shower and moving ourself.

But even with our own priorities, He has put his family first before us and the baby. Every weekend he has helped them move grandmas stuff, and today we had an important family reunion to go to on MY side. when i got off work i messaged him to tell him i was on the way to pick him up. I got home and he wasn't there. Didn't even tell me where he was going. so that of course made me mad and upset because he didn't tell me or call me. come to find out he's helping his grandma move. And still is as i am writing this.

Next weekend is our baby shower and i am having guys and gals there for more fun. well his family is trying to tell him GUYS don't go to baby showers.

I am seriously fed up at the moment. i know the tradition but i am different and i want my whole family there. whether your a guy or not. they are trying to get him to ditch the baby shower to help them move next weekend. i know their plan.

I told my husband that i had his friend's coming and he needed to show up for their sake and for ME!!

i have many thoughts running through my head at the moment, i wish he would get home because i need to have a serious talk with him.

also next weekend his family is having a cookout DAY after my shower, looks like I won't be going now since he couldn't make it to my family reunion!

i needed to vent. thank you!