Busy Anniversary advise

Our anniversary is Tuesday and we are so swamped with work and life right now. But I still want to do something. I feel like I sort of expect him to cover these sorts of dates b/c I do so many "little things" all year long. But this year I was thinking of saying that we both have to add like 3 things maybe to the evening? Since we will be getting home late that day perhaps saying one of us picks the music we listen to and makes a playlist and the other picks the meal or something. Idk I want to put some of it on my shoulders too but Idk. What have some of all done??