Why can't guys find the spot

Question

Why can't a guy find your clit. Any guy I've been with has had trouble finding the clit. Like this guy was rubbing my "clit" but not really. He was rubbing the sides of my walls. I wanted to tell him so bad like move a little to the left. But I'm always scared to say something cause I don't want him to feel like he is bad.

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Maybe I'll have my man draw him a map lol. Maybe tell him that you want to try something kinky, tell him that you want him to watch you masturbate while he Jacks off. This way he doesn't realize you are actually showing him what you like and he will think that it's super sexy.

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Speak up! Guys aren't mind readers and every girl likes to be touched differently. Some girl don't like direct stimulation and others need pretty vigorous stimulation. He won't know what you like unless you tell him or show him.

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I would seriously just direct his hand there with mine, or tell him where to go - life is too short to have average sex! 😂
Seriously though, by speaking up you'll be doing both of you a favour. You can either stay quiet and put up with some less than great action there to preserve his feelings, or you can speak up and have a good time. I think you'll find that most guys are pretty open to feedback and genuinely want you to enjoy the experience, and would prefer you to be genuine rather than faking enjoyment. 
And at the end of the day you guys should quite frankly be equal - why should his (potential and shortly lived) hurt feelings be more important than yours?

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If he asked you if it feels good,  say "yes, but it might feel better here" and show him. It's a learning experience at first. He obviously wants to please you, and unless you're a good faker he will start feeling like he isn't doing a good job anyway, so it's best to just be honest. Then you can build his self esteem up by letting him know how great it feels when he gets the right spot.

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if u take is hand and be sexy and move his hand toward your clit and maybe open up the lips.  so he can find your clit. he'll think your playing with yourself and its hot

Why can't guys find the spot

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