Baby is one month

My baby is one month old and I'm still not in love with him. I love him but not in love and don't have a connection . I obviously take care of him and make sure he has everything but I just don't feel it no matter how hard I try. I can't stop thinking about how much I'm not getting done or what I'm not doing or how my life is completely different and day by day is completely different and how I'm not used to that. I couldn't wait to have him and now it still doesn't feel like normal life. Anyone have any advice.