SOS girls I hate this maybe more than I should?? I want it gone!!

This is the back of my upper thigh...like close to my butt... I really hate shaving here cause I think that's why I get these red bumps!!?? It's super annoying that it's really never soft/smooth here and not to mention so unattractive. My SO says he doesn't mind it but I wish they were gone and I could just have smooth skin all around.

Any suggestions that might help this issue disappear?? Creams or something that might help?? Idk what to use

I don't even know if this is common or not but it bothers me so much, lowers my self esteem and makes me feel yucky 😭