Sex too soon?

Comment below how long you were with your partner before having sex with them!

I just started dating this guy and I'm trying to figure out how long is good to wait on having sex. I jumped into sex way too fast in my last relationship and it made things so messy that I'm weary of doing that again. I really like him and I always leave our dates dripping wet and frustrated with myself for feeling this way. He's incredibly understanding of where Im at and said he's okay with waiting for as long as I need. I really want to have sex with him I'm just nervous the same thing will happen with him as they did with my ex. I'd love to hear your experiences and get some advice!!