wedding or baby first

Louise

After TTC for some time we put the baby on hold to get get married. now I'm possibly 8 weeks and the wedding is in June. Maybe I've been really stupid and should have just planned things out better but I thought I'd delay the wedding until 2019. A few family members are pushing us to move the wedding forward and make it a smaller celebration because having a 1 year old at a wedding is too much. What are people's experiences of this?