Ughh oh no

So me and my bf had sex last night he came (not inside of me) but I was no where near satisfied I didn’t even moan this really sucks especially for someone who hasn’t had sex in 3 years not even his head made me moan it was good tricks but not enough to satisfy me or made go yes but not main point anyways I also now I feel a sting inside my (v) it doesn’t hurt bad the pain ain’t as bad when you have a infection and stings bad is not like that is way less pain then that but I still some type of pain is this normal and what can I do or try get me to get close to a orgasm