Is this abuse? What do i do?

​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​Hello Ladies. Not sure if any of you can relate, but everytime me and my bf have sex he grips me really hard to the point where i bruise like this. I'm not posting this to make it seem like he abuses me because he's such a sweetheart and respects me. Its just that when we're in the moment i don't even realize it until after when i start hurting. He grabs me before we get it on and i tell him it hurts and he doesn't listen. With this bruise i feel like it's enough and i don't know how to approach the situation bc i dont want him to take it wrong. I just really need a put an end to end, and he bites me and i also bruise on my cheeks, neck, etc and my parents get really mad. Im afraid that they'll see this bc hell will break loose. Fyi he's a real sweetheart, he never disrespects me, and wont ever lay his hands on me. So dont think he's hitting me.