other family

Do you let the non custodial aka parent that has been around to help you at all family take the baby for a day? He hasn't seen the baby since he was born and considers $20 pack of diapers when he was 2 months old enough. He hasn't paid child support for 6 months. He got a job and they threatened to garnish his wages so he called child support back and set up a payment plan so they won't take it all. Now, my babies other family is asking to take the baby for a day but he does not know them (he is 11 months). I took him over there last month and he cried the whole time. Just want to know how you deal with the babies other family.