Is porn cheating?

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I don't believe it's cheating. If he or she prefers porn over sex with you than it needs to stop. I watch it alone and so does the hubs. Sometimes we watch it together. I see some people getting divorced over it but I think that's a little much. What are your thoughts? 
I want to have an open discussion about this topic. Please don't attack anyone for feeling a certain way.

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Be in a long term relationship with someone who struggles with a legitimate, in-therapy-for-it pornography addiction, and then you can say getting divorced over it "is a little much" 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️ It's so annoying when women spout off about what other people should do or not do in their own marriages/relationships. Your parameters and options aren't relevant to me, because you aren't me. 
I don't personally consider porn "cheating" but it can become a form of being unfaithful to ones partner if it begins to interfere with the health of their spousal relationship. It wasn't a problem in my first marriage (that ended for other reasons) even though my ex husband did use porn. It's a problem in my current marriage because of it's extremely negative impact on our intimacy (both emotional and sexual). Not every partnership is the same, obviously, even when there is a common denominator (me, in this case).

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It's not for me. When my husband was into it (secretly), i felt betrayed. But that is OUR marriage. And the fact that it was so consistent and secretive was the biggest issue. In my opinion, if one spouse HS an issue with it, then it definitely can be defined as cheating in that particular union. To each their own. There is no clear cut answer for every marriage.

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My definition doesn't need to match your definition.
Cheating in a relationship is based on the couple.  End of story

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Porn to us isn't cheating. It's whatever for us heck we will learn things from porn

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In my relationship it is being unfaithful, because that is what me and my spouse discussed, for our relationship. He doesn't want me to watch it, I don't want him to watch it, so doing so is breaking trust. Every relationship should have their own boundaries, which should be discussed between each individual. There is no one answer to this question.

Is porn cheating?

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