So... I got Ben-wa balls and I now know why they call the small ones expert balls... I tried them the other night with my SO. Rather he was in charge of sexy time and put them in for me (I didn't even realize that's what he did) and I had a great orgasm... but afterward we struggled for 20 minutes to get them out.

I couldn't birth the ball and he couldn't get his finger around it! I was seriously sweating and could not push it out.

I'm sure if we waited I could have but it was hilarious proof that I probably shouldn't have my own kids. (His daughter has lived with us for 4 years and she's great, but I'm still on the fence about having my own baby.)

Has anyone else ever tried them or have advice on a brand that I don't have to birth out? 😂