It’s still eating at me over a year later. He kept trying to get in my pants and shoving his hand down there but I kept saying “no, I don’t want to.” He seemed to think it was a joke and I know I didn’t seem too terribly upset, but then I fussed and said “____, stop, this is rape” and he got super super upset and I felt terrible. I really loved him and hated seeing him upset, especially at me. So I just let him. Was this consent by submission? I’m sorry if this is the wrong room but it felt like it fit.