Losing my v cards and hair down there

I'm about to lose my virginity ( I think ) I'm a little bit of a late start, my boyfriend is VERY experienced and I trust him but I don't want to embarrass myself by not knowing what to do. Would anyone have any tips for me???. I would like to surprise him and be laying on the bed in some nice lingerie, well that's the plan anyway. And also I have a question about hair down there. I'm a mixed race girl (half black half white) but the hair on my body is quite dark and especially down there. I'm self conscious about my hair down there and I was wondering if anyone had any tips for darker hair types. If I don't feel like regularly shaving! Thank you xxx