is it ok for your family to get in the middle of your relationship? I have been with my bf for 4 years and my family just can't seem to like him. they like him one minute then not the next. They might have reasons, but should I really let them try to split us up, when I am deeply in love with him? does it matter if they like him or if i do? I can't seem to grasp the situation, it is very complicated and hurts. he's sweet and besides are little fights and once In awhile big ones we always work it out. anything I need he gives me. he's the type to give me the shirt off his back. i guess my fam only see what mistakes he may make and not see who he really is. he's never left me hanging and doesn't go out with friends and leave me behind. my mom tells me that I abonded my teenage sisters for him and I really didn't they just want me to choose and I feel like it's not fair cus it's my love life not theirs. so I do get really sad and it hurts for them to make me feel like I have to choose. we've been a close family and I think they have a hard time with me living with him.