Mom Duties vs. Dad Duties

My husband and I are expecting baby #2 in May. We currently have a 1-1/2 year old son... Now, my husband is great with our son, he loves him and plays with him, feeds him and changes him... but he REFUSES to give him a bath or brush his teeth. He says "that's not a dads job." We take turns putting our son to bed, I don't mind being the sole person to give our son a bath, but it really is pissing me off that he won't brush his teeth before putting him to bed on his bedtime nights. Does anyone have this "gender role" issue?

PS- I am thankful for everything he does but really... is it that hard to brush our sons teeth?!?! Give me a freaking break.

I'm a part time working mom. I spend most of my time working while our son is napping, so the rest of the time, he is with me.

Any suggestions on how to "get over" this petty argument? I'm just afraid that I'm going to be the one doing all the baths and teeth brushing and hair brushing ect.. for two kids. It would be nice if he could "lighten" my load now and again. Remind me that we are a TEAM.