TMI WARNING:: SEX
so let me start off by saying I'm 29 weeks pregnant, and I feel so so sexy. I have been into fitness for many years, done competitions, and overall take really good care of my body. This is my second pregnancy with my husband, and our sex life is always been amazing, even thru my first pregnancy he was constantly going down on me, just couldn't get enough of me. fast forward to now, when I feel the sexiest I have ever felt during both pregnancies thus far, husband admitted to me while he thinks I'm extremely sexy he does not find my pregnant body sexy. he definitely will not go down on me, and even if I get him to touch me before we have sex, he acts like he needs to wipe his hand off as soon as any wetness touches him. literally like he's grossed out by me. I'm honestly getting really freaking pissed off because I'm the one who needs the foreplay, he can finish in two seconds without foreplay, obviously my stomach is nice and round now so it makes it hard when I'm on top to get any clitoral stimulation before he's already ready to nut. I just don't understand, we are both super horny, but it's like he can't put forth any effort into foreplay for me because he's just not into me or something. anytime I try to bring it up he just says I'm being a bitch and he loves me and I'm the one who is saying that he doesn't want to touch me Etc.. he straight up told me he will not go down on me, and also that he does not find my pregnant body sexy. never in a million years would I think this would happen because my first pregnancy we were just still totally all about each other, even after I gave birth we were still so sexual. we planned this baby and tried for over 8 months, so it's not like it wasn't expected. anyway my husband is literally making me hate him, it makes me not even want him in the birthing room because obviously if he's so grossed out about my body already he's going to be super gross out when he sees another baby come out of me. I'm just pissed off, and I totally know he's being a complete douche so I'm at a loss of what to do or how to feel. Yeah I masturbate like crazy right now because it's the only time I can get off, but damn sometimes you want some freaking intimacy from the man that you love. if I do get him to touch me it's like he purposely sucks or does stupid shit that doesn't even feel good just so I'll tell him to quit and then he can get out of it... So damn frustrating!
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.