when apparently people are doctors.

when both my Rheamtoid arthritis doctor and OBGYN. said prednisone was safe for me to take during pregnancy to control my Arthritis pain ( even then it's not the greatest but help me not wake up crying and unable to care for myself because the pain is that bad if I take nothing) that my boyfriend's family and family friends keep saying it will kill my unborn child .. yet it's the safest thing for me to take to control my pain, and even the OBGYN and I have other friends who have said their OBs prescribe prednisone to prevent people from losing their baby if they are higher prone to miscarriages.... yet apparently it's okay with my boyfriend's family to go on roller coasters, apparently be told drinking okay, and even when I asked them to stop they still continously smoke around me.... but that's all okay And so much more things they do that can cause harm to my child ...