Babymama drama! Sorry it’s alittle long I need advice itsimportant!

Okay so long story , I met my man in April of 2017. We fell for

instantly and I mean instantly I’ve been with him everyday since then. But he recently had a son in December and when we met he was honest about his sons mom , they broke in October while she was still pregnant but he’s still manned up and is a great dad. They’ve been co parenting and everything’s fine. So while we are just talking he is still going over there and seeing his son. He let me know from the gate, his baby moms crazy and any girl he has tried to talk to she will try to run me away any way she could, I’m not easily convinced and I’m not insecure in myself... she wasn’t about to guilt me or make me feel like shit. When we first started talking I’ve seen her messages to him saying stuff like ( Why won’t you even touch me we haven’t had sex since we broke up, do you even love me any more, is everything really over , I thought having a baby would fix us) she also lied to him and told him she wasn’t pregnant because she wanted to have a baby with him thinking it would fix their problems he was upset about it but he loves his son to DEATH! Fast forward, he told her about me when we started getting serious and she lost it! She found me on Facebook started sending threats, saying stuff like “ we fucked last week” “ we were still together before you came in the picture” “ you ruined my family” “ watch you back” all this stuff not knowing that I already knew they weren’t together. He told me she would do this and say whatever she had to to get me to give up, that he has made it official with me, she stopped letting him see his song completely and says things like “ leave her and you can see him” and kinda dangles his son over his head like a puppet. My boyfriend lost his job not to long ago so I’ve been helping him and she goes and puts him on child support as soon as she found out. I’ve even been helping him pay that he just misses his son dearly I’ve seen him cry and be so hurt and I can’t take it. It went down to family court HIS SELF to try and get joint custody cause I told him she can’t just make up rules, your just as much of a parent as she is. It takes 2! And today is the hearing and I’m nervous but he has all her threading texts all the times he’s tried to compromise and see his son and she just says not until he leaves me alone or no and calls him a deadbeat... he’s so far from it. He’s been battling his with her for months, he can’t go to her house because he tried it once and she called the cops and told them he was hitting her, got a restraining order on him, just to tell on her self in texts and he printed them out on how she said she was lying and just wants to see him in jail. This chick is real life CRAZY. She’s convinced I’m a side chick and all this stuff but he has clearly made me a priority and has shown me nothing but pure honesty since... even about his son, not a lot of dudes tell chicks they have a newborn and shows off his pictures he has of him and with him and just talks about him it’s so beautiful but we really are getting serious, serious enough to talk about marriage and kids but this chick is trying to ruin us and use her son as a weapon. And her son is suffering BAD! She doesn’t even realize what she’s doing by depriving her son of a father because she is upset he moved on. I just need some advice. I have threats from her too, she’s even said

he was gonna kill herself and bone it on us. It’s so much stuff.

He said she wants him to admit to cheating which is something he didn’t do but using his son as a weapon to get him to say and do whatever she wants

None of this is true, she stopped allowing him to see her and now she is saying I told him to block her number ( he lost his job and it was off) so she is just assuming I did. I would never deprive a child of a parent I would never tell him to not see his child and she knows it but wants to make ME the problem... This chick is insane. He has been begging and kissing ass for months to see him so he finally went about it legally...