What is this?

So here’s the deal. I asked my s.o to use a condom the other night. He said no, and I asked again, he said no. I asked a third time and he said fine. So we start to have sex & he suddenly stops and then he pulled out.

He took the condom off. And before I could say stop, he had put his penis back in me and he had cum in me.

So what is this? Please help. I’m very confused by this. He is 37 and I am 22.

Before you answer, though, here is a little background.....

See, we broke up after 7 months in 08/21/2017. We got back together on 9/2 or so. Well, he wanted a baby and so did I but now I changed my mind, and he didn’t like this. I told him I didn’t want to try right away. We WERE TTC before. So after that, what would you call this?

Please no negative comments, please only offer supportive comments. This happened before my Fertile Week began, Friday night and I began to Ovulate/have my fertile week on Sunday, 10/1. Thank you.