Celibate

So I was in a relationship for about 5 years. He was my first and everything. We broke up. This past year and a half I’ve slept w 3 other guys. 2 casual , the other started as casual and ended up intimate but he tore my heart apart all over again & now I have no want to have sex w just anyone. I use to love sex so much and was a major freak but it’s just died down. Any advice or opinions??