How to NOT tell family...

Sally 💙💗💗💗

I’m in a situation where my husband and I are TTC, but we don’t want the whole world to know. My family is a drinking family and my husband and I enjoy hanging out on the weekends with them having some drinks and hanging out at a bonfire or whatever. Well, my husband flat out asked my brother what we were all doing this weekend KNOWING that I’m not drinking. My question is, how do I spend a night out NOT drinking with people I normally drink with and have them not know what’s going on?? I don’t want people to know because I’m afraid my husband and I are going to have trouble getting pregnant and I frankly don’t want to talk about it with everyone if that does happen. What do I do?? 😬