Just venting. Idc about the comments or criticism because it’s always so easy on the outside then on the in. I’m a new step mom. I’m married for one year and my husband has a 3 year old. I thought I was able to handle this change but it’s seems as time goes on it gets worse. I feel distant from my step son even tho he’s so cute and I try to love on him and I play with him and buy him stuff cook clean so everything as if he were my own but it’s just not the same. I had a miscarriage a few months ago. Idk I told my husband my feelings and struggles and he just really does not want to hear or try to help me deal or get through it. He just keeps saying when we have our own I’ll basically shut up. But I feel like he doesn’t appreciate the effort I’m putting into trying to make this work. He really has the attitude of I have no choice and that I’m automatically supposed to do the things i do. Which i understand I did marry him but still some appreciation is nice. I’m just annoyed. I also have issues with and a little jealousy when he’s with his kid. I know it’s crazy and I probably should just get divorced because nothing will ever change. I just need to remove myself from the situation.