Ok so I don't HATE it... it's not like, as bad as getting an injection or a tooth pulled...

I don't understand why I don't look forward to it and why I am never ever ever in the mood nor can I get myself in the mood.

It's causing some strain in my relationship, as my boyfriend has a very healthy drive. He feels like he's the problem and he's totally NOT. I've always been this way... but you could see how it's easy for him to think that.

Things to consider:

1. I am not currently on birth control; I quit in an attempt to drum up some kind of a sex drive

2. I take 100mg of Zoloft daily

3. I had a mildly traumatic sexual experience years ago, but it was my first sexual encounter and I know that definitely plays somewhat of a role....

Anyways... help???