He's so busy at work and stressed and has so many projects to finish after hours. He's never in the mood and has a low sex drive so we got into the habit of only having sex once a fortnight. Now we are trying to conceive and he grumbles about it which obviously makes me angry and then I just say forget it. we end up having sex at most twice during a "fertile period" and probably missing the right day. We r 30 and have been together for 12 yrs and were so active in the bed for the first 7 years. The last 2 or 3 years have been a massive dry spell. apparently he does still find me attractive but sex seems like too much exertion and effort for him. i want a baby so badly and he says he would like one too but he keeps making me feel like I'm making him have sex. i get sad and teary when I see babies and pregnant woman now because I'm scared I'll never be able to have it.