Hubby doesnt want to have sex now. TTC


He's so busy at work and stressed and has so many projects to finish after hours. He's never in the mood and has a low sex drive so we got into the habit of only having sex once a fortnight. Now we are trying to conceive and he grumbles about it which obviously makes me angry and then I just say forget it. we end up having sex at most twice during a "fertile period" and probably missing the right day. We r 30 and have been together for 12 yrs and were so active in the bed for the first 7 years. The last 2 or 3 years have been a massive dry spell. apparently he does still find me attractive but sex seems like too much exertion and effort for him. i want a baby so badly and he says he would like one too but he keeps making me feel like I'm making him have sex. i get sad and teary when I see babies and pregnant woman now because I'm scared I'll never be able to have it.