I went for my first consultation with the midwife yesterday and I am 9 weeks pregnant. we went through a load of questions and did blood tests etc. When it come to weight and height my BMI came back in the overweight category close to the obese side and the midwife made me feel really rubbish about it, And brought it up a few times. I am still in my size 12 clothes like I always have been and yes the scales may say a little more than I liked but it's clear to see that I am no where near obese. Has this happened to anyone else. I left the appointment feeling like I wanted to cry.