*possibly trigger* "We don't Choose to stay because we don't have a choice"

why is it the only advice woman/man in abuse relationship Is "you need to leave".

this goes for men too because "they're a guy they can handle it" that's bullshit. little boys being beat by adult woman? is wrong. little girl beat by adult man? is wrong. adult man being beat by adult woman? is wrong believe it or double believe it. Adult woman beat by adult men? is wrong. it's all wrong. all dangerous and should give out more then a sentence worth of advice. *please mind my grammar and misspelling my phone keyboard isn't nice and I type quickly*