Never anything serious

Dating now is the most frustrating thing ever. Any guy that ever shows any interests in me always starts out as a “nice guy” who flips around becomes aloof and noncommittal down the line. They’ll never admit they aren’t looking for something serious, they’ll just string me along until I give up and move on.

Is dating really just putting up with this until someone who’s actually genuine comes along? How do I know that a guy isn’t being genuine? I’m tired of investing my time into wastes of time.