I asked him to try

Wendy

And his excuse was, "its 2017, how many parents actually stay together anymore?"

I am so heart broken for my daughters. I can't help but think this is my fault. He has a kid with his ex wife too. I guess if he didn't try for them I should have never had kids with him. It just isn't in him to be a husband. He's an amazing dad and I love him. Idk how it got to this.

But I am a good mom and I would never do this to them. I can't accept that they will have to go between us for the next 17/18 years.