Do YOU consider it cheating?

Chelsea

My boyfriend of over 1 year has a problem. He has admitted this. Last night, for the FOURTH time, he had been caught on SOME kind of dating app. He's been on Tinder, Bumble, and LITERALLY a dozen other dating/chat/hookup apps. He talks to girls, calls them baby, asks them out to go for drinks or dancing or asks if they're DTF. HOWEVER he never actually meets up with them. He says he has NEVER met them in person. And for the most part it looks like once they say "yes" to meeting up, he just blocks them and never meets with them. (He also had about a dozen pictures of one of my good friends saved to his phone and he admits looking at her while he jerks off, and has dick pics on his phone that he has admitted to sending to random girls - sorry if you got an unsolicited dick pic from my boyfriend)

I've agreed to stay with him while he seeks out help/advise from his church or das or whatever. He understands that he has hurt me, and he's willing to get help for me to stay, HOWEVER he still doesn't think what he did counts as cheating. I think that it is, because he has to hide it from me, he feels uncomfortable talking to people he respects about it, and he is actively seeking out these girls and showing off his penis. It would be totally different if he was JUST looking at girls (I mean, I wouldn't have a problem if it were just porn)

What do you girls think? Drop comments if you have any other opinions.

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