So my husbands mom lost custody of all of her kids when they were little & all the kids were adopted by a family member, ok, so, the mom didn't have any contact with either kids until the oldest one (my husband) got with me and we had a baby, didn't have any contact with the other 2 until they graduated high school! Which they are twins so they graduated same year!! Anyway, for the past 4 years, my husbands mom has been coming over whenever she wants and only suppose to stay a couple days but winds up staying 2 weeks to a month and my husband don't expect me to say anything to her about her long visits because he don't want to hurt her feelings! Anyway Everytime she is down she sleeps all day if my husband is at work but as soon as he gets home she's up and sticking up his butt like something gonna happen to him! Like literally follows him around constantly! Ok so when she FINALLY goes home she constantly calls him from 6 a.m to 9 or 10 p.m wondering what's he doing!! Like last week she called 38 times in one day! I mean my husband works a full time job! He gets up at 5 leaves at 5:30 and don't get back home to 7 in the evening and he tells her he's working or he's busy and she still calls every Seems Like 15 minutes!! We plan a family day for my husband, our 3 kids, & my self Atleast once a week, and we usually dont be on the phones but she calls and calls until someone answers and Saids she is worried about my husband not me not the kids just my husband! Like she is expecting something to be wrong! (Oh & when shes visiting she only has anything to do with my husband not the kids) ive told my husband that! he didn't notice it at first but now realizing it) she gets on my last nerve with all the calling blowing both of our phones up just to talk to my husband! She even calls at 6 a.m on the freakin weekends when we tell her don't call Til around 11 that we sleep in on weekends! My husband has done told her to stop calling so much and there's nothing to worry about but seems like she is obsessed for some reason! I've told my husband that as well!! I want to get our numbers changed and not give it to her for a while to give us some peace and quiet! She doesn't drive so I don't have to worry about her just popping up at my house! I hate how she is and she refuses to stop any of her doings! Everytime she calls back to back and we finally answer my husband will remind her how many times she called and she'll say I didn't mean to call so much knowing damn well she knows how many times she has called!! It's so frustrating that I want to answer And give her a piece of my mind! With me being pregnant (32 Weeks) I'm very moody and wanna just blow up over stupid things like this but then my husband will be pissed at me cause he don't want anyone hurting his moms feelings!! Anyway, can anyone give me any ideas on how to handle this cause if its not handled soon I might just get my kids and leave Til my husband can get his mom under control with all the calling and over staying her Welcome! This obsession she has with my husband is very weird and Un called for!! And needs to be dealt with! & am I wrong for not standing her? I mean everyday it gets a little worse!! Even to the point where my husband even tries to ignore her calls and Saids dang, she calls at the wrong time or dang, I just talked to her!!