Plan B turned into a Healthy Baby

I was done having children, my children are older. 15 & 11 and boy do I struggle with these girls as a single momma.

I own a few businesses building myself up from nothing after a divorce, strong and courageous it’s my goal to lead by example.

However in my life I am easily manipulated, walked over, and used by people who are “fake”’friends to get what they want out of my businesses.

After having my children, I did miss being pregnant so what better than to give life to someone who can’t.

I provided twins and a singleton to two gay couples residing in San Fran as well as Germany. But having both those pregnancies resulting in csections I knew it was time to close the baby making factory.

This year for me was a time to close a new chapter. Making my circle so small, with those I thought I could trust with my life. Boy was I wrong!

My friend, introduced me to her husbands brother (decent guy) and one thing led to another. Btw- I had no been with anyone in years, I am not a sexual person as it means so much more to me than one night stands. But it was her birthday and alcohol was involved and bad choices were made.

Long story short, I was on the Nuva-ring and we used protection. But upon penetration the condom broke and he came! Lol I was so turned off and realized sex just isn’t for me- and his embarrassment took care of himself.

The next day (8 hours later) I took a Plan B. Just in case.

Anyway three weeks later I woke up starving! Like my stomach was eating itself. Never in my life had I felt this way. So I ate went to work and this continued, I made an appointment with my doctor and wouldn’t ya know I am pregnant only 7 months after having my last surrogacy. Terrified, I thought of all options.

Being pro choice for a mistake I made I decided to take responsibility and work another baby into my plans.

I told my friend and her brother in law, and he became immediately obsessive, talking marriage, moving in etc. turns out there was a lot I wasn’t told.

Long story short - he has 3 children, a protective order against him, and 13!!!!!!!! Yes 13 CPS cases against him for child neglect. I guess a guy drinking at the bar is very different than real life. I was lied to - but they only wanted me to better their family financially. I ran and ran hard.

October 7th, 2017 I went to Costco with my mom. Usually I LOVE walking Costco but that day I said hey can we just go my tailbone is hurting. I had been having a bloody show for the past 5 days and that day it had finally stopped and I just felt exhausted (not like me). So we went home and I took a nap.

I woke around 7 pm took a nice bath, fed the dogs and monkey and was ready for bed again. My 11 year old was with me rubbing my feet (sweet baby that day) anyway I fell back asleep to wake at 1 with contractions. Being my 6th child I wanted to make sure it was time. By 6 am I couldn’t breathe through them and the tears started rolling. I thought I was going to be cheating and miss labor plans since I was scheduled for a csection. After my two girls being all natural I was fine being a baby. I don’t like pain.

Anyway my daughter got my mom and off we went- immediately admitted at 830 and baby born 1015.

I was 38w2D. I am sore, my body never healed from last baby, but I am strong - have a supporting family, and my plan B baby is one of the most adorable babies I have ever seen (bias).

Everyone please welcome Hazel Renee born 10/08/2017 at 10:15 am 5 pounds 14 ounces 18 inches long.

Just want to add whether you choose natural medicated natural csection. The importance is the health of momma first and baby. Both have to be strong and okay for any plan to work. If anyone has questions on surgery I’d be more than happy to answer.

Thanks for reading