Have you girls had a meltdown when turned 20?!

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Why would someone have a meltdown at 20?

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Not 20 but when I turned 23 I definitely freaked 😂

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Turning 20 opens up a lot more responsibilities & challenges. Personally I'm 21, my fiancé is 20. We both have a job, have our own home, pay our own bills, have our own car & have our first child on the way. I can admit at times it can be frustrating & overwhelming. Considering not even 3 years ago we was in high school with absolutely nothing to worry about but homework & tests. Then all of a sudden after graduation everyone expected us to get a car, that we paid straight out for & own, everyone said to get a job, which we got one within a month of being graduated. Everyone expected us to move out of our parents house, which we also did in a timely manner. It's a lot to take in all at once at least that's how it was for me. I'm not complaining that me & my fiancé have our very own life that we built ourselves, don't get me wrong. I'm very proud of us for getting ourselves to this point, but the pressure people can put on you can get very monotonous & stressful. I can completely understand.

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No not at 20 definitely not, but at 20 I was already a mom! I cried when I turned 31 though. I was sad when I turned 30 but I dealt with it ok but for some reason 31 was sooo hard to deal with. I think it’s just because I imagined that I would have accomplished so much more by 31 and I was feeling super down on myself. I’m approaching 32 soon and I’m starting to get really depressed thinking about it too.

Have you girls had a meltdown when turned 20?!

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