Which is worse?

Anyway, because we're both pretty obviously pregnant and also noticeable young, we get a lot of questions, comments, and stares. People have told me countless times now that "it's a shame" I'm giving my baby up and how kids these days aren't taking responsibility for their actions. Those very same idiotic people will tell my sister that she won't be able to do it. So which is it? Why do people feel entitled to ask intrusive questions? Why are people never satisfied with anything? And no I'm obviously not basing my decision off of how other people feel. But it's annoying how people demonized every single option. What do they expect? We're already pregnant. Why not go tell a non pregnant kid all this stuff.

So I'm asking and I want to honestly know what people consider to be the lesser of the two when it comes to unprepared, pregnant teens. Is placing a child for adoption neglecting responsibility? And yes I know the two shouldn't really be compared, but people do it anywhere.